Bro, you’re not failing, you’re just too tense

Bro, you’re not failing, you’re just too tense

Bro, you’re not failing, you’re just too tenseShawn Hesmatpour
Published on: 17/11/2025

I hate this. I hate how my mind works. I hate everything about how society operates. I hate how I have to “improve myself” in order to feel like I can get a girlfriend. All the other dude’s I grew up around made it look easy. No therapy needed...

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